hi Aviva,
hope you are well.
i met this girl few years ago, and since I moved to the city where she lives, we connected and started seeing each other. I liked her and wanted to have a serious relationship. She feels comfortable going out with me, spending the weekend and evenings out. However, no sex or intimacy. I respectfully kept a distance until she is ready to commit.
She recently told me she isn't ready and wants to take it easy and no rush. We have been seeing each other for about 2 months.
Yestersay as we met she said I was "structured". I was away on vacation that I went alone. She stopped returning my texts the night before my return. Texted her back when I landed and no reply. Tried her on Facebook whatsapp and nothing. Today she said that I should have called her instead of texting her to ask her why she's not returning my whatsapp messages.... She then said she doesn't want commitment.
Now I feel That I need to let her go. Can't wait for someone to make up their mind. Can't take anymore hurt and pain. Have a senior job I need to focus on.
Why is it some people like to make things complicated? Was she using me as I used to take her to fancy places and I always paid. I always got in touch, she never initiated, it never bothered me, but now I look back and wonder.
thank you
charbel